Wedding officiants have one major concern when writing the ceremony: "What do I say?" And it's not just the speech or the vows or other ceremony elements. Officiants just like you are worried about how to flow from one part of the ceremony to the next. This comes from our tendency to think of the ceremony as a brick wall. The elements are the building blocks, and then... But don't those blocks need mortar between them? If there's nothing holding it all together, the whole thing falls apart,...
Category: Officiant Speech
5 Questions to Ask Your Same-Sex Couple About Their Wedding Ceremony
Even if you’ve officiated five hundred wedding ceremonies, the very first time a same-sex couple asks you to officiate their wedding ceremony, it can feel like your first time all over again. I hear it from experienced officiants all the time: “What’s different about a same-sex couple’s wedding ceremony? What do I need to know? I’m so worried I’ll mess this up or inadvertently offend my couple. Help!” The good news is, no one will be more understanding than your same-sex couple. Chances are,...
How to Choose the Best Songs for The Wedding Ceremony
The right music is crucial for setting the tone in your wedding ceremony. There are lots of feels in a wedding ceremony, and the right songs complement the emotions of the moment. The wrong songs? Well… the opposite. If you don’t believe me, just go watch those YouTube videos where someone swapped out John Williams’ score when Darth Vader enters. Or the other one that completely removed the music for the final Star Wars medal-awards scene. Music really does make all the difference. It can be...
The 5 Essential Questions to Ask Your First-Time Wedding Officiant
You asked your friend or relative to officiate your wedding ceremony! They’ve never done it before, but they said yes! You’re so excited! You walk away feeling great. But how does your first-time officiant feel - that person you love so much and hand-picked for this assignment? I’m here to tell you: they have a different emotion. First of all: they feel honoured. No worries there. And they probably told you that when they agreed to officiate your wedding! But they also feel scared. And lost....
How To Officiate a Wedding Ceremony For the First Time
You've been asked to officiate a wedding ceremony for the first time. Your first reaction? You feel honoured! Now that you're sitting down to actually figure it out, it's overwhelming. Maybe you feel pretty good in front of a crowd. But a wedding? It's all too much. I got you. There are a lot of moving parts when it comes to a wedding ceremony! The key is to understand the parts of a the ceremony itself. First, you need to know how to format a wedding ceremony script. But that's just the...
How (And Why!) to End the Wedding Ceremony with a Grand Finale
The very best ending to a wedding ceremony is a grand finale. Everyone is on their feet. The officiant presents the couple. The music starts. The couple head up the aisle to a symphony of overjoyed laughter and raucous cheers from their guests! But that's not just going to happen on its own. There's a perfect formula for lining up the moving parts to ensure the wedding ceremony ends with a grand finale. The officiant needs to order things in a specific way to make it happen. And if you don't...
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